If Mean People Suck, Nice People Rule The World
People tend to amaze me with their good ideas, acts of love and free hugs. Annie Dillard said it first, but I’ll say it again: How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. How are you spending your days?
Do you feel jealous? Irritated? One annoying person away from rage?
Yes, yes and yes, been there.
But what if we spent more time trying to BE the nice guy. Maybe he’d finish first once in a while. Maybe the real reason he’s always last is because there’s no community, no village to keep him going. In my world, nice guys and girls finish first.
Think about it. These everyday habits could change the world.
Don’t Make Anyone’s Day Worse
It’s a simple mantra I read on Josh Hanagarne’s blog and it made me dig deep. Do I make anyone’s day worse? Colleagues, kids, Mr. Right? (No need to reply, really.) Make a point to remember not to. Slap it on a billboard, tie a string around your finger, make a mixed tape (remember those?). Above all, do no harm.
Support Amazing Work
There are so many people doing amazing things, with or without corporate support. A few of my dearest friends are blowing me away with their talent. Shout out to Heather Peterman and Tracy Anderson. Keep it up, ladies. Your art rocks my world.
Be Nice
A simple gift can make someone’s day golden. Last week, a neighbor left this paper mousepad (photo below) on my porch. She wrote: “Melissa – Here’s to the ‘brilliant’ ideas you share with others through your columns.” Wow, nice people rule the world. Thanks for the inspiration, nice peeps. I really needed it.
Who makes your world a better place? Give them a shout out, leave a comment below. Leave a link. Above all, be nice.
Thank you very much.
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