Are you afraid of debt?

by Melissa on December 10, 2009

afraid of debtNovember sucked for our debt snowball.

Here’s why:

We spent over $700 on groceries – not even including two trips to the specialty wine store where I spent at least $50 … each time. (In my defense, those little bottles add up so easily.) Our budget is $500, or $125 per week.

Another $288 went for eating out. Our budget is (supposedly) $80 per month.

This is just the tip of the overspent iceberg in November.

Budgets are tough. I hate NOT spending money. I don’t like thinking about NOT spending money. It’s NOT fun.

On the flip side, I love the thought of financial freedom, of having a savings, of being smart with money rather than $400 dollars stupider.

Here are some solutions for December:

Double accountability. It’s hard and annoying to keep track of a budget. Choose two areas – like groceries and eating out – and ask your partner to help monitor spending. Or adopt a “cash only” rule in these two problem areas.

Have a merry Christmas. Not a merry spend-fest. How can you save money this year? I decided not to send Christmas cards – for a savings of about $60.

Find a way to fear debt. One of the reasons I got into debt in the first place was that it wasn’t scary. I’m not sure I ever planned to pay it off completely… I had decided, “Well everyone has a little debt.” Now, the thought of debt scares the hell out of me. Find a way to let it scare you – as soon as possible. Pretend it looks like this:

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Photos by by sara b. | 2009 and Chris Gin

See also: Paying Off Snowball with a Debt Snowball

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1 Miranda Paul December 10, 2009 at 2:54 pm

Your advice on setting a “cash-only” budget for the most problem spending is key. My husband and I did that months ago. Barring a few “emergency” purchases, we’ve been pretty good about it. Cutting up all but one credit card helped significantly. To responsibility!

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2 Melissa December 10, 2009 at 9:29 pm

I’m glad you cut up your credit cards. We really need to start using cash. I’m already scared to look at how much we’ve spent eating out.

Or maybe we need a bigger eating out budget!

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