Comments on: How To Win http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/ Sun, 22 Jan 2012 00:25:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Melissa http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/#comment-253 Melissa Wed, 20 Jan 2010 04:26:22 +0000 http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/?p=886#comment-253 @ Joan - Thank you - that's the best comment ever. @ Joan – Thank you – that’s the best comment ever.

]]> By: Joan http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/#comment-252 Joan Tue, 19 Jan 2010 20:21:58 +0000 http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/?p=886#comment-252 I loved this entry! Brought tears to my eyes - what sweet honesty. I loved this entry! Brought tears to my eyes – what sweet honesty.

]]> By: Melissa http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/#comment-251 Melissa Tue, 19 Jan 2010 18:26:42 +0000 http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/?p=886#comment-251 @ Deeg - Good luck getting to know the stranger in your bed for the last 30 years. ;-) But in seriousness, it is hard to remember we might be married to a completely different person in a few years. Hopefully, marriages grow together. @ Deeg – Good luck getting to know the stranger in your bed for the last 30 years. ;-)

But in seriousness, it is hard to remember we might be married to a completely different person in a few years. Hopefully, marriages grow together.

]]> By: Deeg http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/#comment-250 Deeg Tue, 19 Jan 2010 15:13:13 +0000 http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/?p=886#comment-250 Married almost 30 years now, I think sometimes I don't even know the person I married, of course it's because I've let the communication dwindle. We can get too comfortable just being around, falling into a pattern, accepting that this is just the way it is. Then, you sit back and think, there's got to be more, and I believe this is a crutial time in a marriage of 30 years. A time to reconnect, look towards a new adventure. Married almost 30 years now, I think sometimes I don’t even know the person I married, of course it’s because I’ve let the communication dwindle. We can get too comfortable just being around, falling into a pattern, accepting that this is just the way it is. Then, you sit back and think, there’s got to be more, and I believe this is a crutial time in a marriage of 30 years. A time to reconnect, look towards a new adventure.

]]> By: Melissa http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/#comment-249 Melissa Tue, 19 Jan 2010 13:07:45 +0000 http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/?p=886#comment-249 @ Quinn - Resentment is serious, and you're right, it can build up until all that's left between you is resentment instead of what matters. Thanks for your comment. @ Quinn – Resentment is serious, and you’re right, it can build up until all that’s left between you is resentment instead of what matters.
Thanks for your comment.

]]> By: Quinn http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/2010/01/fight-for-love-find-a-way-to-win/#comment-248 Quinn Tue, 19 Jan 2010 07:23:56 +0000 http://www.peaceandprojects.com/blog/?p=886#comment-248 I like that you talk about the fears building up, in my experience fear is the biggest thing that gets in the way of communication in a relationship. Will he still like me if I tell him this or will I hurt his feelings if I comment on that. As the fear grows we find it harder and harder to talk about anything until the relationship whimpers and dies. If we do not look the beast of doubt and resentment in the face and master our fears we can loose so much that is dear to us. I like that you talk about the fears building up, in my experience fear is the biggest thing that gets in the way of communication in a relationship. Will he still like me if I tell him this or will I hurt his feelings if I comment on that. As the fear grows we find it harder and harder to talk about anything until the relationship whimpers and dies. If we do not look the beast of doubt and resentment in the face and master our fears we can loose so much that is dear to us.

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