A former boss gave me this advice:

Put a picture on your desk that reminds you where you came from.

That’s what I see in the photo above.

A skinny, blue eyed country girl that dreamed of being legendary.

First, a figure skater. Later, an Olympic gymnast. Those dreams and more were written in my Book of Dreams.

Here’s the one I’m still working on:

Remembering keeps us real

There is no one else I’m trying to be in the top photo except Melissa. I’m not wondering if I’ll say the right thing. Not worrying: will people like my latest blog post?

I was happy to be myself, playing in the snow, smiling.

Be real. Connect with your authentic self.

Remembering helps avoid past mistakes

Like every teenager, I went through a period of feeling lost. If I could go back, I’d approach those years with more confidence (less bangs). I wouldn’t worry that my eyes were too big, my wrists, too skinny.

I would focus on activities that made me feel strong. I would write and never stop. I would ignore self-doubt as much as possible.

Learn from the past. The lessons can shape your world.

Remembering can rewrite your life

As the oldest of six kids, I lived a simple childhood. We didn’t have a lot of money, but us kids never noticed. We lived off the land and made it our playground. We smiled, laughed, joked and explored.

Melissa grew up.

I complicated my life as an adult – increasing my debt, stress and pressure. Remembering where I came from helped change that. By getting out of debt, quitting consumerism and doing work that matters, I am able to enjoy simple adulthood. A strangely familiar new life.

Turn around and take one step forward. It’s never too late.

Your turn.

This week, find a photo that reminds you where you came from. Look into your eyes, at the memories and authenticity hidden in the scene. See who you were then. Ask yourself: Who am I today?

Somewhere in the image, you might find your future.

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