Work is a Sanctuary

If a job is worth doing, it’s worth doing well. -proverb

Going to work means something completely different than it did last year.

Today, work is a sanctuary.

It is a place where life, love and solitude exist.

Where my office and bedroom share space.

Work is a little desk along the wall … a lamp, a laptop.

Work is coffee in the morning, wine at night.

It is where I cherish a piece of my identity.

Where the door closes just for me.

If you are working in a toxic environment or doing work that lacks meaning, it may be time to run for cover. It may be time to build your own sanctuary, piece by piece.

Here are some steps that can help:

1. Find work that matters to you.

What are you good at? What excites you? What are your secret dreams for the future? These are a few question to ask on your journey to do something amazing.

While passion is important, it’s also important to be practical. Landing the career of your dreams can take years. That’s why you shouldn’t waste any time figuring out what you want to do.

Learn more from these real-life people who quit their day jobs:

2. Enjoy a taste of freedom.

Is it possible to work from anywhere? Present a written proposal to your manager requesting to work from home either part time or full time. Even if no one else at your company is doing it, ask anyways. Pave the way for freedom. Own your position, not the other way around.

Read more: Easy ways to make the rat race a much better ride.

3. Start a very small business.

Convert the time you spend watching TV, sleeping in and trolling Facebook into cash. Use your free time to create a very small business, like Tammy Strobel did.

You can create your own Smalltopia. It probably won’t happen overnight, but it will happen. Taking one small step toward your goal everyday will result in a huge payoff. -Tammy Strobel of Rowdy Kittens

4. Keep it simple.

You don’t need a fancy workspace to start building a sanctuary. Keep it simple. Treat the space with respect instead of letting clutter overtake it.

A little upkeep goes a long way. Put things away when you’re finished. Keep up with paper clutter. Now you can stay focused on the big picture, instead of wasting time with distracting piles of paper. Spend just 5 minutes decluttering each day. That’s all it takes.

5. Post a quote or sign that inspires you.

Since I’m editing my novel, I have this quote by E.L. Doctrow on the wall above my laptop:

Who speaks to you? Inspiring words can be a silent cheering section. They can help you remember your goals each time you sit down to work.

I know from experience: It can take years for work to feel like a sanctuary, but the result is something truly beautiful.

Today, work is place I develop characters for my novel. Work is where I keep the pink feather that distracted Little Boy from doing his homework. Work is where I turn off all the phones so I can focus.

At the end of the day, work is where I am at home.

It is where my spirit sings.

Please share this post. Thank you!

Special Note

There’s still time to get in on this fantastic deal. But it’s all over March 25. So don’t wait!

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1 Living the Balanced Life March 24, 2011 at 11:03 am

I know how you feel Melissa. Last year work was torture. I was a madwoman. This year I love what I am doing. I love writing, I love helping, and I love reaching for the next level! Now granted, this work doesn’t come with much money yet, but I am SO much happier! I have to make myself stop because I could write for hours and hours!!!
Bernice
Keeping little hands busy while mommy works

2 Melissa March 24, 2011 at 2:22 pm

Hi Bernice,
Keep doing great work – the money comes later. I’m glad to hear work is no longer a place of torture!
Melissa

3 Susan March 25, 2011 at 11:46 am

Lovely. So many posts about quitting jobs is more about the negative, the negative of corporations, the negative of forced structure, the negative of commuting, the negative of meaningless work. This very much feels more about hope and possibility with clear, actionable steps.

And like you said, work IS so important, it really is part of what makes us, us. So it better be worthwhile.

4 Melissa March 29, 2011 at 9:37 am

Right on – “It better be worthwhile.”

There is a lot of negativity about work. It is such a personal, beautiful thing when you are following your intuition. Thanks for stopping by, Susan!
Melissa

5 Linda Lee March 28, 2011 at 11:16 am

Well said. I’m creating my new career this year as a self-employed Lifestyle Strategist. As such, an important part of my job is to help others create the LIFE & CAREER of their dreams! I will share this post! thanks!!

6 Melissa March 29, 2011 at 9:35 am

Hi Linda,
I love your blog and I know you’ll do great things. Enjoy this new chapter of life!
Be well,
Melissa

7 Grace Kelly March 28, 2011 at 11:42 am

Lovely Melissa,
Looking forward to creating a new work environment for myself , I have spent the past few months using the affirmation: “I am now in a new environment, doing what I love and being well paid for it”. Looks like it is paying off now.
Keep up the inspiration, so comforting and useful .
Gratitude, Grace
http://www.citygirlconfidence.com

8 Melissa March 29, 2011 at 9:35 am

Hi Grace,
That’s a wonderful affirmation. I’m glad it’s paying off.
Take care and thanks for reading!
Melissa

9 David | Listen Feel Breathe March 29, 2011 at 1:07 am

Hi Melissa,

It’s wonderful to hear that your work is a sanctuary, what a wonderful way to keep creative and inspired.

That’s a great quote too, I’ll remember that one. You may not be able to see the finish line but if you keep your eyes focused ahead and keep the momentum going you do get there.

I know because there’s so much on my plate at the moment but I am looking straight ahead, knowing what I want to achieve and completing one task at a time.
Just finished my first e-book so very happy with that progress.

10 Melissa March 29, 2011 at 9:34 am

Hi David,
Thanks for connecting here. Congratulations on your ebook!

11 Rebecca April 5, 2011 at 11:37 am

Melissa thank you!
I have recently found you and am delighted! “Work is coffee in the morning, wine at night. It is where I cherish a piece of my identity. Where the door closes just for me.” This is perfect. A new phase in my life has begun – I am midlife and creating a business I am passionate about, living a happy and settled life with my children and enjoying the little things in life.
Thank you for inspiring me.
Rebecca

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